Activities to Keep Kids Entertained and Busy While Mom Gets Wedding-Ready

Weddings are one-of-a-kind moments – but for kids who are faced with endless hours of waiting for their mom to be event-ready, they are rather endlessly boring. Perhaps you remember the restlessness you’d experience waiting for a long time for a meaningless reason before heading to a fun event with friends.

Your kids are likely feeling the same way right now as the big day approaches, especially as their excitement overpowers their patience. By the way, kids don’t start understanding and developing patience until they’re around 6-8 years old – the moment when they begin thinking of how their behavior impacts results and brings consequences.

While it’s easy to get caught up in the whirlwind of preparations and last-minute details, you might learn that having a simple plan to keep your kids entertained when you need a few quiet moments to yourself can save you a lot of trouble.

Create an arts and crafts station

Kids love being offered the tools to explore their imagination and create. And what better way to give them something to do that makes them feel like invaluable contributors to the wedding than by prepping an arts and crafts station where they can create handmade cards, paper flowers, wedding signs, and even scrapbooks?

You will need a small and comfortable table and chair set, markers, paper, stickers, stamps, glue, and child-safe scissors. Of course, you can add more tools depending on what’s safe for your kid to play with or invite them to help you build the station. Anything can be turned into art with a bit of guidance and surveillance. This doesn’t just allow them to tap into their creativity but also makes them feel involved in the big day. Plus, you’ll get to keep some adorable keepsakes that you’ll rejoice over when they grow up or even give their artwork as gifts to the newlyweds if appropriate.

Set up a dress-up box

Another great way to keep your kid busy and safe while dealing with pre-prep stuff is to set up a special space with costumes, crowns, hats, bow ties, jewelry, and other fancy costume pieces. Have them explore their inner fashionista by encouraging them to try on clothes and test outfits. Once you have them involved, you might be pleasantly surprised with the outcome. Kids love to play the authoritative adult, and a dress-up box might simply hit their spot while you’re busy possibly doing the same thing.

Want to keep your eyes on your kid all the time? Then, have them be your little outfit planner. Simply asking basic questions like “Do you think I should wear this statement necklace or this delicate collar?” might be just enough to keep them entertained for a few minutes. From there, you can keep them engaged by continuing with similar questions, inviting them to help choose shoes and hair accessories, or even giving their opinion on makeup—anything that makes them feel involved.

Create a snack station and picnic

Wedding preparations can take forever – or, at least, this is how the agitation feels for the little ones. It’s when they get from excited to cranky in a matter of seconds, and being hungry is of no help. Now, you’re looking for ways to keep them engaged while you have your eyes off of them for a while. Preparing them a picnic or snack station, with bite-sized fruits, muffins, sandwiches, crackers, and so on, will keep them busy trying out different combinations.

Encourage kids to imagine and recreate meals with what they have on hand, taste them, and express satisfaction that encourages them to explore further. There are endless ways to capture kids’ interest and curiosity, which can further be manifested in the form of trial snack combinations and food recipes.

Plan games for the downtime

You need some quiet time before the wedding, whether to get dressed, do makeup, or even wait for the big and exuberant celebration to start. Whether you’re getting ready at home or in a hotel suite before the wedding, having a few engaging activities for your kids can be a lifesaver. Prepare a small box or basket with hands-on games that don’t require much supervision or make too much noise. Think of things like card games, puzzle boards, magnetic tiles, stacking toys, or sensory-friendly fidget items.

These game types are ideal for keeping your little ones busy while you’re getting your makeup done or occupied with last-minute details, all the more since they don’t involve making a mess or using digital screens.

Give kids special tasks

Children love having a sense of purpose, which is why assigning them meaningful tasks is among the most effective plans that will keep them engaged wherever you’re getting ready. For instance, you can ask them to:

• Check that your bag is getting ready and has the essentials (phone charger, wallet, tissues, etc.)
• Organize accessories like jewelry or shoes by color or size
• Hand you different items, from perfume to hair spray
• Declutter the makeup table.

Establish a Storytime Corner

Since they’re young, kids often have no idea as to what to expect from the so-well-awaited big day. Fortunately, stories and audiobooks are tackling all sorts of themes, so you might most likely find something audio your kid can listen to while you’re getting ready and enjoying at the same time. This can help create a calm atmosphere and keep your child’s attention engaged without requiring much supervision from you.

Choose light, fun, or fairy-tale-themed stories to keep the wedding excitement alive while giving them a chance to enjoy the upcoming event well before it begins.

Endnote

By having a few activities in place, you can transform a somewhat chaotic waiting time into a relaxed downtime. Such thoughtful plans entertain your kids and make them feel like they’re part of something exciting and meaningful. Kids need presence and a bit of fun while you’re getting prepped up, so whether it’s an hour spent on arts and crafts or sets of recurrent minutes spent sorting out jewelry and accessories, these little moments can turn into some of their favorite memories.