Category: Online Safety

It’s not just the overt dangers (like predators or explicit content) we need to be on the look out for. Increasingly, the way platforms push content. This is done via algorithms and recommendation systems. And it can quietly shape what children see, their emotional states, and their worldviews.

It’s a hidden problem. Have you ever noticed how your child’s social feed seems to change overnight? One day it’s silly cat videos, the next it’s moody clips about body image or stressful world news. You didn’t search for it, and neither did they — yet it’s there. That’s the power (and the problem) of algorithms.

What Do We Mean by “Algorithms”?

Let’s keep it simple. Algorithms are just the behind-the-scenes math formulas that decide what shows up next in your child’s TikTok, YouTube Shorts, or Instagram feed. They’re designed to keep kids watching — not necessarily to keep them safe.

Think of it like a friend who only recommends shows you’ll binge — but never checks if those shows are good for you.

Hidden Risks in Kids’ Feeds: Implicit Harm

Even seemingly harmless content (e.g. videos about dieting, self-improvement, “life hacks,” or stressful news) can carry anxiety, self-criticism, or skewed ideals. A recent study analyzed short videos recommended to young users and found that videos with darker visuals and implicit stressful themes are more likely to be surfaced by algorithms.

Addictive Design and Endless Scroll

The “infinite scroll,” autoplay, push notifications — these features are engineered to maximize engagement. For kids and teens, they can fuel compulsive use, reduce time for rest or offline activities, and amplify emotional vulnerability.

Do Age Checks Really Keep Kids Safe Online?

Platforms are pressured to verify user ages and to tailor feeds differently for children vs adults. The debate is how well these systems work (or how easily they’re gamed) — and whether they truly protect the young user vs just giving a veneer of safety.

Mental Health Impact

There’s growing evidence linking heavier social media use with depression, anxiety, body dissatisfaction, and attention issues among youth. The algorithmic amplification of content, especially negative and emotionally intense content, seems to play a role in impacting mental health.

Subtle Dangers of Algorithmic Feeds

We all worry about obvious dangers online: predators, explicit content, scams, mindless AI generated content. But researchers in Canada and the U.S. are uncovering a quieter risk — implicit harm.

Here’s what they’re finding:

• Dark visual signals: Studies show videos with gloomier imagery and sound are more likely to pop up for kids, even if they never asked for them.

• Emotional rollercoasters: A 13-year-old’s feed can shift from funny clips to stressful, anxiety-heavy content faster than an adult’s.

• Addictive design: Infinite scroll and autoplay keep kids “hooked,” sometimes for hours longer than planned.

This results in stress, comparison, body dissatisfaction, or just a nagging feeling that life isn’t good enough.

Stories and Studies That Hit Close to Home

This isn’t just theory.

• The TikTok case (U.S.): A 10-year-old died after attempting the “Blackout Challenge” — a trend pushed by TikTok’s algorithm. Courts ruled the algorithm could be held legally responsible.

• Canadian research: Analysts found that younger teen accounts got almost double the harmful recommendations compared to older teen accounts. This study compared passive scrolling on YouTube for 13-year-old vs 18-year-old accounts.

• Child welfare systems: Even outside social media, Canadian agencies have seen how unchecked algorithms can lead to unfair or harmful outcomes for vulnerable families.

The lesson here is that algorithms aren’t neutral. They shape what kids see, and sometimes, what they believe.

Practical Steps Parents and Teachers Can Take Today

Here’s where it gets practical. You don’t need a PhD in computer science to outsmart the algorithm.

Four red flags to watch for in your child’s feed:

1. Content gets visually darker or more intense without reason.

2. Sudden topic shifts — from silly to serious — that your child didn’t search for.

3. Autoplay is always running, pulling them deeper.

4. Emotional spikes: a mix of funny, sad, stressful, all in one sitting.

Simple steps you can take together:

• Turn off autoplay or “next video” when possible.

• Encourage kids to follow creators they actually like, instead of relying on what’s served.

• Do a “feed audit” together: scroll for 10 minutes and talk about how the videos made them feel.

• Set device “bedtime” modes to protect downtime and sleep.

New Laws on Kids’ Online Safety Are Coming

Governments are starting to notice.

• In the U.S., the Kids Online Safety Act would force platforms to reduce “addictive features” for all users under 18 years of age.

• In New York, the SAFE for Kids Act proposes limits on algorithmic feeds for minors.

• In Canada, AI and data laws are moving toward holding companies accountable for how algorithms affect vulnerable users — including kids.

So the momentum is building. But until real change comes, awareness is our best defense.

Helping Kids Outsmart the Algorithm

Let’s not leave kids alone with the algorithm. After all, algorithms are baked into how the internet works. They aren’t going away. But we can teach kids digital resilience. We can help them understand what they’re up against. They can learn how to recognize when they’re being pulled down a rabbit hole—and make smart choices.

Think of it this way: teaching digital resilience is just like teaching road safety. We don’t ban cars, but we do show kids how to cross the street wisely. The same goes for their social media feeds.

It’s something we hope never happens: a fire breaking out at home or school. As much as it’s our job to protect kids from scary situations, they need to know what to do if one ever occurs. Teaching fire safety doesn’t have to be frightening or overwhelming! The more practical and routine it feels, the better kids remember it.

According to the National Fire Protection Association, U.S. fire departments respond to more than 45,000 home fires involving children yearly. Many of these fires are preventable, and even when they’re not, early education can drastically improve a child’s chance of escaping safely. So, how do you talk to kids about fire safety in a way that feels empowering, and not scary?

Start with Small, Clear Lessons

For younger children, the message should be simple and focused on action. You don’t need to give them every detail. Focus on what they can do:

• Recognize the sound of a smoke alarm.
• Know how to get out of the house if there’s smoke.
• Understand “stop, drop, and roll” if clothes catch fire.
• Never hide during a fire—always go outside and stay outside.

Children remember things best when the rules are short and repeatable. Reinforce ideas in small doses, over time. For example, when you check your smoke alarms each month, take a minute to talk about what that sound means.

Turn It Into Something Familiar

One of the easiest ways to help kids absorb safety information is to include it in their routines. You don’t need a formal lesson! Everyday moments like walking through the house, drawing a picture, or packing a school bag, are opportunities to build awareness.

In some classrooms, fire safety drills and reminders are even printed on items kids use daily, like bookmarks, folders, or pencils. These custom school supplies don’t feel like lessons, but they gently reinforce important messages. They become part of the learning environment in a low-key, effective way.

Practice Makes Prepared

Like anything, fire safety is a skill that improves with repetition. Kids won’t remember what to do if they’ve only heard it once. That’s why it’s so helpful to carry out fire safety simulations in schools and walk through your family’s fire escape plan at home, even if just once or twice a year.

Start by pointing out exits and testing the smoke alarms together. Then, practice a drill where everyone meets at a specific spot outside. Make it calm and even a little fun. The goal isn’t to rush or scare, it’s to help kids feel capable and prepared.

You can also ask “what if” questions during the day. What if the hallway was filled with smoke? What if the kitchen alarm goes off? Where would we go? This mental rehearsal helps children think ahead and respond faster in real situations.

Fire Safety Week: A Natural Opportunity

Each year, schools around the country recognize Fire Prevention Week in October. It’s a great time to reinforce messages about fire safety at school and home.

Many teachers prepare age-appropriate activities, from coloring sheets and reading aloud to short videos and guest visits from local firefighters. For younger grades, these are a chance to learn about safety in a fun, approachable way.

There are also Fire Safety Week products that support learning, like sticker sheets, home checklists, and themed activity books. These resources help spark conversations and give kids a way to take what they’ve learned back home.

Families can use this time to run a practice drill, update their emergency contacts, or talk about how to call 911. A few minutes of review each year can make a lasting difference.

Keep It Positive and Age-Appropriate

One of the most important things when teaching fire safety is to keep the tone reassuring. You’re not trying to scare kids into behaving safely; you’re helping them feel prepared and strong. Avoid graphic details or upsetting stories, and focus on what they can do to stay safe. Remind them that adults are all working to protect them.

With younger children, it’s okay if they don’t remember every step perfectly. The goal is to build a foundation that will be revisited and reinforced over time. For older kids, you can include more detail and even encourage them to help create the family safety plan.

Build Confidence Through Routine

Like brushing teeth or looking both ways before crossing the street, fire safety should feel like a normal part of life. The more often you talk about it casually, every day, the less intimidating it becomes.

During Fire Safety Week or any other time, take a few minutes to ask your kids what they remember. Practice crawling under a table like it’s low smoke, or point out two ways out of a room. These little moments build familiarity, and that builds confidence.

Final Thoughts

Teaching kids about fire safety doesn’t need to feel like a formal lesson or a serious lecture. It works best when it’s practical, repetitive, and calm. By starting with clear, simple steps and repeating them throughout the year, you give children the tools to act if the unthinkable ever happens. Tools like Fire Safety Week products can support those lessons subtly but effectively.

Most importantly, you’re not just preparing them for a fire. You’re helping them learn that safety starts with awareness and that confidence comes from knowing what to do.

When it comes to finding the good iPad case, the right choice often comes down to how—and how often—you use your device. ESR’s Rebound Series offers two standout options that cater to very different styles of iPad users: the Rebound Hybrid Case 360 and the Rebound Magnetic Case.

I had the opportunity to test both over the past few weeks, and while they share ESR’s signature durability, smart design, and attention to user experience, each brings a unique set of strengths to the table.

If you’re still learning how to get the most out of your iPad, Apple’s official iPad User Guide is a fantastic resource for mastering multitasking, gestures, and hidden features.

Rebound Hybrid Case 360: All-Angle Power, Total Flexibility

The Rebound Hybrid Case 360 is the ideal solution for power users who rely on their iPad for a wide range of tasks throughout the day. Whether you’re watching your favorite shows, sketching with Apple Pencil, hopping on video calls, or gaming during your downtime, this tablet iPad case easily transforms to fit your needs with six distinct use modes—including both portrait and landscape orientations.

What really sets this iPad case apart is its detachable magnetic front cover. The cover locks into place with incredibly strong magnets—rated at 2500 g, compared to the 2000 g found in many other cases in the industry—providing a solid stand for work or entertainment. Yet, the cover detaches easily, when you want a more lightweight or convenient setup, making it perfect for handheld reading or mobile gaming.

The Rebound Hybrid Case 360 doesn’t cut corners when it comes to protection. Featuring a magnetic front cover paired with the solid back case, the dual-layer set up delivers all-round protection against everyday bumps, scratches, and minor drops—all without adding much bulk. The soft microfiber interior helps keep screen scratches and dust away, while at the same time the smooth matte finish on the outside leads to a comfortable and secure grip.

This is a case built for flexibility and confidence—ideal for anyone who needs their iPad to seamlessly adapt to both productivity and entertainment.

Rebound Magnetic Case: Minimal Form, Maximum Grip

In contrast, the Rebound Magnetic Case is all about simplicity, elegance, and portability. If you prefer a clean and minimalist design and want the same level of strength or functionality, this iPad case fits the bill perfectly. It attaches directly to the iPad using strong built-in magnets with a magnetic strength of 1900 g—significantly stronger than the average industry norm of 1500 g—which gives you a firm, secure hold with no shifting or detachment, even during movement.

Its trifold cover folds neatly into both viewing and writing modes, which gives you stable angles whether you’re conducting video conferences or scribbling down notes during class. The exterior has a lightly textured finish that feels great to hold and thus helps prevent accidental slips. With the white version I tested, I noticed one of the most pleasant surprises was how easy it is to clean. Thanks to the iPad case’s stain-resistant material, smudges, fingerprints, and even ink marks wiped away with a quick and easy swipe. Despite its ultra-slim profile, the iPad case still provides strong drop protection, having passed a 100N strength test.

If you’re interested in preserving your iPad’s performance over time, Apple’s own official resource on optimizing battery health and performance offers some valuable long-term care advice.

The Final Verdict

Ultimately, choosing between these two cases depends on your personal usage preferences. When heading back to school, if you’re someone who needs flexibility, full-featured protection, as well as support for multiple orientations and accessories, the Rebound Hybrid Case 360 offers fantastic all-in-one solution. On the other hand, the Rebound Magnetic Case delivers understated brilliance, if you prefer something more compact and sleeker without compromising on grip or magnet strength.

ESR’s thoughtful design philosophy was showcased in both products: smart, user-first solutions that balance functionality, durability, style, and everyday usability. Whether you’re an artist, a student, a frequent traveler, or simply someone who wants their iPad to work smarter, there’s a Rebound case tailored to your lifestyle—and both are well worth the money.

Middle school is one of the most transformative times in a child’s life. It’s a season marked by rapid growth, shifting identities, academic pressure, and evolving social dynamics. For many families, it’s also when they begin searching for ways to help their kids build confidence, stay focused, and find their footing during these often-uncertain years.

One solution that consistently proves effective? A quality afterschool program. These programs offer far more than just supervised care—they provide opportunities for enrichment, mentorship, and development. And when it comes to helping kids sharpen their minds, build resilience, and have fun along the way, chess is emerging as one of the most powerful (and underrated) tools available.

Let’s take a closer look at why the right afterschool environment—especially one that includes chess—can make all the difference. With the help of after school program software, organizations can manage schedules, activities, and student engagement more effectively.

The Critical Middle School Years

Ages 11 to 14 are often described as the “tweens”—those not-quite-a-kid, not-yet-a-teen years. During this time, children experience a whirlwind of physical, emotional, and intellectual development. Their sense of identity begins to form. Peer relationships take on new importance. And academically, students are expected to handle more complex tasks, increased responsibilities, and mounting expectations.

Without structured support after school, many kids are left to navigate this tricky terrain alone. Unstructured time often translates to hours spent in front of screens, exposure to negative peer influences, or simply boredom and disengagement. That’s why many families turn to afterschool programs—to create a reliable, supportive space during those vulnerable hours between the end of the school day and the time parents get home.

What Makes a Great Afterschool Program?

Not all programs are created equal. The best ones strike a balance between supervision, enrichment, and fun. A strong afterschool program provides consistency and support during a time of rapid growth. It offers a safe space where students can unwind, explore new interests, build friendships, and even get academic help when needed.

Key qualities of an impactful program include:

• Qualified adult supervision that encourages growth without micromanaging
• Diverse activities—from homework help and STEM labs to sports and creative arts
• Life skill development, such as communication, teamwork, and emotional regulation
• Accessibility and affordability, ensuring every child can benefit

Among the many enrichment options available, one stands out for its unique ability to develop both the mind and the character: chess.

The Power of Enrichment: Chess as a Mental Gym

Chess is more than just a game—it’s a mental gymnasium that helps kids develop strategic thinking, patience, and confidence. It’s often said that chess is a sport of the mind, and for middle schoolers, that mental training can have real academic benefits.

Studies have shown that children who participate in chess programs demonstrate improved math and reading scores, better memory retention, and sharper problem-solving skills. One study published in Educational Research Review found that chess instruction led to measurable gains in cognitive and academic outcomes, particularly in reasoning and math.

The best part? Kids don’t need to be prodigies to benefit. Even beginners gain valuable skills by simply learning the rules, practicing regularly, and playing with peers.

Social and Emotional Benefits of Chess

Beyond brainpower, chess supports emotional growth in powerful ways. Each game is a mini lesson in patience, resilience, and sportsmanship.

• Confidence: As students improve their skills, they gain self-assurance in their abilities—on and off board.
• Emotional regulation: Losing gracefully and learning from mistakes are baked into the game’s structure.
• Connection: Chess brings together kids who might not otherwise cross paths. Whether introverted or extroverted, students find common ground in the game’s universal language.

In a world where kids are often over-stimulated and under-supported emotionally, chess offers a calm and focused counterbalance.

Why Chess Stands Out Among Other Enrichment Options

Chess is uniquely suited to middle schoolers because it blends competition with introspection. Unlike team sports, it’s an individual pursuit—but not an isolating one. It fosters a growth mindset, encouraging kids to think critically, reflect on their actions, and improve incrementally.

Chess also requires very little in terms of resources. No expensive equipment, uniforms, or field rentals—just a board, pieces, and an open mind. That low barrier to entry makes it one of the most inclusive enrichment activities around.

And while some kids gravitate toward music or sports, others are still searching for their “thing.” Chess often fills that gap, offering a way for children to shine in a non-traditional way.

Real-World Skills Learned Through Chess

Let’s be honest: not every student who learns chess is going to become the next grandmaster. But that’s not the point.

Chess builds real-world competencies that middle schoolers carry with them into high school, college, and beyond:

• Foresight and Planning: Thinking three steps ahead teaches delayed gratification and careful decision-making.
• Adaptability: Recognizing when a strategy isn’t working and adjusting accordingly is a skill used far beyond the board.
• Time management: In timed games, players must learn to balance speed with accuracy—an excellent life lesson.
• Ethics and Integrity: The handshake before and after a game reminds players that respect matters more than the outcome.

These lessons echo in classrooms, job interviews, and relationships throughout life.

Making Afterschool Chess Accessible

While chess is growing in popularity, it’s not yet available everywhere. Fortunately, awareness is increasing, and more schools and community organizations are recognizing its value.

Making chess part of an afterschool program is one of the easiest and most effective ways to introduce it to middle schoolers. Schools can host a weekly club, partner with local coaches, or even offer online matches as part of their offerings.

Parents who want to bring chess to their child’s school don’t need to be experts. Sometimes, all it takes is expressing interest to a teacher or administrator and connecting with local organizations that provide materials and instruction.

Signs That Your Child Might Benefit from Chess

Not sure if chess is the right fit? Here are a few indicators:

• Your child loves puzzles, strategy games, or building things
• They have trouble focusing or need help with patience
• They lack confidence and need a non-competitive space to grow
• They want to make new friends but don’t enjoy traditional group activities

If any of these sound familiar?  Chess might be the opportunity your child didn’t know they needed.

Encouraging a Lifelong Love for Learning

When kids fall in love with chess, they’re also falling in love with learning. That spark can lead to other interests—coding, robotics, debate, or creative writing. The self-discipline and curiosity developed through chess are easily transferred into academics, hobbies, and even career paths.

Even better, chess teaches kids that mastery doesn’t happen overnight. Growth comes with time, effort, and reflection, a lesson that serves them for life.

Final Thoughts

The middle school years can be rocky, but they’re also full of potential. The right afterschool program can give students the structure, support, and stimulation they need to thrive—and chess might just be the key that unlocks their full potential.

By combining intellectual challenge with emotional growth, chess provides a unique bridge between play and purpose. And in a world, that’s constantly moving faster, slowing down for a quiet game of chess might be exactly what kids need to move forward—stronger, smarter, and more confident than ever.