How to Teach Your Teenager About Drugs
Sitting and discussing drugs with your teenage boy or girl is important to educate them about their dangers. It’s important for parents to engage with teens about drug education and discuss influences that teens are exposed to, such as peer pressure, social media, and cultural norms.
While younger children need a strategy that considers their need for more freedom and exploration, older teenagers need a different strategy.
Below are four tips that can help you educate your teenager on drugs.
1. Keeping the Conversation Appropriate for their Age
Parents must treat teenagers like they are young adults. Teens are more conscious of their environment, friends, and social media when it comes to drug and alcohol use. Do not use specific verbiage to scare them, Teenagers are generally more mature and less naive. It’s important to discuss the facts about drug use and addiction.
Explain why some people decide to take drugs, such as the desire to gain friends’ approval or to relieve stress, while also explaining the possible negative outcomes. Promote the asking of questions and be ready to reply as clearly as possible, with the truth. This way, you can establish good communication with your teen and he or she might turn to you for help or advice.
Suggestions for Parents:
- Promote a free flow of communication where your teen can express himself or herself without feeling judged.
- Explain the risks of drug use and also the causes of drug use including pressure from friends or stress.
- Give examples and outcomes, including health, legal, and social effects, as well as possible outcomes.
Make sure that they consider you as a credible source of information.
2. Establish Rules and Explain the Rationale for the Rules Established
Teenagers require rules, but at the same time they need to be given reasons as to why these rules are set. When establishing rules on drug and alcohol use, it is important to explain thoroughly and answer all their questions. Instead of just telling them that drugs are wrong, explain to them how substances can harm their brain, hinder their learning or sports achievements, and cause future health problems.
It is also necessary to stress the social, legal and ethical implications of drug taking. For example, underage drinking may lead to legal consequences, while using drugs may affect their chances of getting into college or getting a decent job. When teens know the reason for the rules then they are more likely to obey the rules and regulations.
Suggestions for Parents:
- Explain the family rules on drug and alcohol use and the reasons for these rules.
- Ensure you tell your teen to follow the rules to the letter but at the same time be willing to listen to what your teen has to say about them.
- Enumerate the positive and negative effects of violating these boundaries in the short and long run.
- Encourage your teen to participate in the process of establishing rules and guidelines and make them feel that they are part of the process.
3. Emphasize the Direct Outcomes and Real Life Examples
Young people are not always capable of understanding the implications of their actions and how their decisions affect their future, and it is more helpful to use appropriate examples. Explain the possible consequences of drug use in aspects that concern them in the present, for instance, academic performance, sports, or other activities. Explain to them how substance use can affect their social life, their image in society, and even their ability to accomplish their current goals.
Describe how drug use can impact their capacity to concentrate on academic work or have the energy for sports. Describe the effects of poor decision making, which may result in hazardous activities such as driving under the influence. This makes the issue more real. Explain that if your teen does have an issue with drugs, help is available, and addiction rehab is an option.
Suggestions for Parents:
- Give examples that are relevant, for instance, how drugs can ruin one’s performance in sports or in academics.
- Explain the short term effects of drug use such as the effect on decision making that may lead to accidents or other dangerous activities.
- Give them examples of what they would do in case of peer pressure.
- Stress the need for the students to take care of their health in order to meet their short and long term objectives.
4. Describe what Addiction means and Stress the Importance of Responsibility
During the teenage years, children are beginning to assert their autonomy, and this is why it is important to teach them about addiction and accountability. Describe how addiction can occur and the problems that most individuals encounter when they decide to stop using substances. Stress that drug use is very dangerous and that addiction affects all aspects of life.
Explain how it is a part of growing up to take care of one’s health. Teach them to make the right choices to avoid drugs if they are being pressured by friends and be ready to have answers to questions about drugs. Remind them that they are in control of the decisions they make and these decisions will determine their future.
Suggestions for Parents:
- Define addiction in simple terms and show how it alters a person’s behavior and decision-making.
- Explain the part that responsibility plays in the non-use of substances and the promotion of health.
- Tell them to seek assistance if they ever feel stressed or if they have the desire to try out drugs.
- Help them to find ways of dealing with stress, peer pressure and other challenges without turning to substance use.
Additional Tips and Resources
Visit websites created for teenagers and parents to find information on drug prevention and healthy living. Authority sites that have relevant information about substance abuse and addiction, as well as tips on helping to educate your teen.
Make sure your teen is involved in some after school activities, which will help him or her stay away from drugs.
If you feel that the conversation is too much for you to manage, don’t be afraid to seek the help of a counselor or therapist who deals with adolescents.
Educating your teenage children is a process that has to be repeated. It includes telling them to tell the truth, to say no, to think about the results of one’s actions, and to consider the consequences. Thus, you can be sure that your teenager will be able to make the right decisions and avoid many pitfalls that are typical for adolescence if you listen to them and give them an opportunity to share their thoughts and feelings.